Life Coaching creates change for the better
The easiest way that you are going to change anything for the better in your life is with someone else – someone that is unbiased and helping you.
Tragically if you are like most people you won’t look for change until something bad happens. It may be at an extreme in your life when you lose a job or a relationship or it might just be when things don’t feel right, you are stuck or bored. That’s often when I step in and help you find the answers and solutions.
It doesn’t have to be that way. Learning about yourself and the way you can can improve your life from your current perspective is very powerful. Through Life Coaching you can learn all the tricks that people “in the know” already apply in their day to day lives to make them a success in any area they choose.
What Is Life Coaching?
Life Coaching is becoming more mainstream but I am often still met with a blank stare at a party if I say I am a “Life Coach”
Here is how you can benefit from my gift.
Discomfort helps you grow!
It’s normal for you to get “stuck” and see an issue one way only. In this situation you will resist change. You end up staying in the situation that you don’t want to be in. In talking with me I will create a little discomfort in the conversation – I will help you grow.
I will help you through difficult issues even though it makes you feel uncomfortable in the process.
You see its very difficult for you to question your beliefs and behaviour without the benefit of an expert looking in from the outside.
Your brain has a protective instinct – your ego – It keeps you from exploring issues with any power or depth.
My influence will enable you to see outside the box
When you explain your unique situation to me I will objectively consider your circumstances, listen to how YOU describe your situation, reflect on what you are saying and I will ask questions that will gently push you to review your thoughts and behaviour.
As you talk and I listen for clues – I will pick up any gaps in your logic, your faulty assumptions, any fears that you have, any attachments to past events and I will find your conflicting values.
All of these things are blocks that prevent you moving forward.
My words will penetrate your protective barriers. This will make you think. It will feel awkward at first – then as your mind grasps the “other” possibilities you will be pleasantly surprised at how good you feel. That’s how you grow as a person.
In other words I will generate an insight and this will create a breakthrough in your thinking – for you.
BUT wait! There’s more…
There is a big difference between Life Coaches – they are not all created equal and you have decide who you want work with.
I do my coaching through intuition or a psychic gift – being in touch with a higher power if you like – this gives me a unique insight into YOU