Find Your Soulmate

The topic of how to find your soulmate comes up often with clients. Life is a reflection and you attract partners that reflect aspects of you to further your learning. As you work to conquer your ego you will find more and more satisfaction in the partners you attract.

Contrary to popular belief, soulmate couples do not usually recognise each other at first glance. The person who attracts our ego is seldom the one our soul desires to be with.

Guidelines To Find Your Soulmate

Here are 15 guidelines on how to find your soulmate.

1. If you are already in a relationship. Stop focusing on your partner’s faults. Start looking for your own faults and doing something about what you uncover. Be willing to face the truth of what you find, even if it seems terribly embarrassing or disappointing.

2. Learn to listen to your inner voice for guidance. You can enhance this through meditation. Understand that it’s possible that there is a source of wisdom within you that knows better than your ego which partner will be most likely make you happy.

3. Release relationships that are toxic or no longer fulfilling.

4.  Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want BUT really understand what it is that you actually want.

5. Focus on one relationship at a time. This allows you to be fully present and gives your partner every opportunity to respond fully.

6. Your soulmate won’t necessarily share your hobbies, background, or look the way you expect. Don’t be blind to possibilities or to someone you may already know.

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7. Your inner guidance may bring you together with your soulmate repeatedly. It’s up to you to decide whether to accept the introduction and pursue the possibilities.

8. Don’t wait for a perfect situation that gives certainty before you are willing to move forward with your relationship. You will most likely never be certain especially at the beginning.

9. If you meet someone and you are infatuated or under the spell of lust, it’s wise to proceed cautiously.

10. Keep you eyes open and your judgements locked away. It’s unlikely you can tell someone’s soulmate potential at a glance.

11. Be patient, relax and let the true possibilities of a relationship emerge in their own good time. You’ll meet your soulmate when the time is right for both of you. See number 1 above.

12. True love is not blind. Emotions are what blind you – see number 9 above.

13. Don’t be discouraged just because your attempts to find true love have not worked in the past. A new approach, a different angle might produce results beyond your current expectations.

14. Be kind and gentle with yourself. Face your mistakes with compassion and take the necessary steps to correct them.

15. Remember deep down, your soul won’t be satisfied with anything less than true love. Don’t settle.

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