Find Your Soul Mate

Let’s discuss how to find your soul mate. From my own personal experience of being involved in certain relationships, I have come to realize there are three different types of soul mates. You should keep our eyes open and pay closer attention to your relationships so that you might recognize your soul mate.

Soul mates have different tasks to fulfill in your life. This applies in reverse as they have a duty to their own life also. It is not always the case that these relationships exist on a level where ‘physical’ interaction is involved and this should not be confused with their initial task toward you. Some soul mates are here only to serve as a link between two other soul mates of their own. Not all all soul mate relationships are romantic. This alone is a very important and significant task, as without that link the reunion of the other souls might not ever happen.

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As you can see, there is no limit to what a true soul mate might do in order to provide their support. On many occasions it’s not fully understood why they do so.

Soul mates are a universal flow of untapped energy that you can relate to as love.  On an unconscious level soul mates tap into the energy of unconditional love.

It’s important to understand that when you find your soul mate – regardless of the type – it doesn’t mean in any way, shape or form that soul mates have to be involved in a physical relationship in order for them to be together. Soul Mates have to be ready to embark into their journey together, and this is very important for the relationship to succeed.

Three Types Of Soul Mates


Your mirror image and probably the most rare example. However, it is possible that they do exist in each of our lives at one point or another. We might have one or two in a lifetime from this category, if we are lucky! What makes them special? Soul mates of this sort come into your life in a fast, weird and unexpected way. The situations and events in our lives begin to change of their own accord, in order to accommodate the arrival and the reunion of both souls. In such a case it is can almost be said that it is ‘written in the stars!’

Both Souls have to be ready for each other, as I did explain before it is not enough to sustain the relationship at its full potential, only by existing as soul mates. This level is the strongest and most powerful type of relationship. You will have many similar interests and share an almost equal interest in your life direction. You will think alike, and in many cases will be able to continue speaking a sentence where the other one has left off. You will be a mirror of each other, although you do not have to be exactly the same. However, each one of you compliments the other with your individual strengths and weaknesses. You will be on the same ‘wavelength’.


Your supporter soul mate is found everywhere around you. Try to take deeper look at the people who surround you. Just look around when you are in dire need of help or guidance in a ‘life or death’ situation or at a time when you have a heavy burden on your shoulders. Who is around you and ready to listen to you when you really need their assistance? Think of the people who bring you comfort and peace when you need it. Who answers your call when you need some help. These types of soul mates do have unconditional love towards each other which can sometimes be difficult to comprehend. Is there someone in your life, of whom, you can relate to being there in this fashion?


Your Provider. You encounter these types of soul mates in situations that might feel ‘weird’ or perhaps in some un-expected places. We like to refer to them, sometimes, as being our angels. If they occur, they usually will not stay in our lives for a great length of time. You might come across a soul mate of this kind when you are just wondering along the street, thinking away to yourself and from nowhere someone will provide with you a small message that will open up a possible answer to those ‘thoughts’ you have upon a certain circumstance in your life.

These soul mates are placed on your path ‘out of the blue’ and we might never see their face again! We then carry on, feeling blessed at having had them in our life at that necessary moment. Their role is to provide us with an answer or a push toward making a small decision in order to keep us moving in our lives and struggles at that time. Can you relate to such an occurrence in your life?

Ask Your Guides

Here is something that will help you find your soul mate. Once many years ago I asked my guides the question, “will I ever meet my soul mate?”
They replied, “You keep searching throughout your life for the perfect partner for you, but have you ever questioned if you are a good example of a soul mate for someone else?” In reality, the importance is not in hunting to find the right Soul Mate or partner for you. The importance is in whether you yourself are willing to be the ‘right’ soul mate or partner for someone else! Life is a two way street but are you ready to be the right one for someone else?

In the end, we all can be the ‘right’ person for anyone we choose in our life, but only when we are ready to treat our partner as a human being, as a soul and to cherish every moment spent with them. Also it is crucial that we learn to let go of the fact that we do have differences between us and any ‘ego’ that exists in any relationship. How ready are we? That’s the bottom line! The search has to start from within ourselves first”.

Old Souls Union

I would also like to mention here that any relationship that brings the union of ‘Old Souls’ is above all and the best time and example of soul mates being together, the reason being, for what they will bring to each other in terms of growth, understanding and appreciation. As a result of their union their wisdom, compassion, value of each other and evolution of consciousness will flourish in a way that would be almost impossible for them to achieve if they were united with another soul that is less highly evolved than what they are themselves.

In such a case the older soul will always feel a huge gap or that there is something missing in the relationship in terms of their overall understanding and awareness of each other and it is only because the souls exist on two completely different levels of consciousness. I will not go into too much detail here on the subject of ‘Old Souls’ as I will have an article next month which focuses primarily on this topic.

It’s about unconditional love. If you have that and you can provide that to anyone around and especially towards your partner, I believe you find your soul mate after all! Let me know how you have found your soul mate? Comment below or join me and comment on Facebook


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