In this chapter I give you the
basic structure of a sex magick ritual with the 'how's and
'why's while next chapter describes several possibilities
for working alone, with one or maybe more partners.
- First set a goal.
What exactly do you want to achieve with your magick?
Your goal can be any material attainment, like a new
job, prosperity in business affairs, a pleasant house,
whatever. Your goal can be the healing of yourself, another
person, mother earth... Your intent can be improvement
of an existing relationship or attraction of a new one.
You may wish to (further) develop several qualities in
yourself, or create an excellent artistic piece. You
may wish to embrace the inner lover, and establish a
stronger connection with your higher self. You may wish
to charge an amulet, talisman, or magical tools, etc...
Deeply desired wishes create the strongest magick!
Then create something that makes it possible to laser-like
concentrate on your goal/intent during the ritual. -
This can be a short affirmation. During the ritual
you can repeat the whole affirmation. Another possibility
is to reduce this affirmation to a word that covers its
central idea; this will be your magical word. Examples:
the affirmation "I am a successful business(wo)man" becomes "Success". "I
request the universe to send me the best possible lover,
or partner" becomes "Lover" or "Partner".
The idea behind it is that your subconsciousness now
knows your full intent, therefore it is sufficient to
only repeat your magical word during the ritual.
- This can be a visualization of the new created reality.
- It can be a drawing of what you want.
- It can be a symbolic representation of your desire,
like a suitable tarot card, rune, sigil, astrological or
other symbol.
- In case you do the ritual for someone else it can be helpful
to also have a photograph of the person.
- You can use a combination of the above.
-
Prepare your working space.
Clean the space where the ritual will take place. Decorate
it with candles, incense, flowers, gemstones or anything
else you find appropriate. If you use symbols or other
pictures make sure you can see them during the ritual.
If you wish to play music, don't forget to put it on
the repeat-button. Close the door and lay the phone off
the hook.
- Clean your body.
While bathing or showering you can visualize the water
washing off all mental, emotional and physical dirt.
- Relax for a while.
Take some deep breaths or meditate a little.
If you do magick with a partner you may want to sit opposite
each other, hold hands and synchronize breathing or inhale
while your partner exhales.
- Do a banishment.
It is very important to visualize a strong circle/globe
of protection that keeps all unwanted spirits out, or
do any other banishment you prefer, before you actually
start the ritual.
- Perform the ritual
I know two 'main routes': one with emphasis on the affirmation/mantra/Word
of Power, and one with emphasis on visualization.
If you choose to work with an affirmation: Arouse yourself and/or
your partner by any sexual activity you wish to use until you almost
reach orgasm. Meanwhile keep on repeating the affirmation or mantra;
you can say it out loud or repeat it silently. When you are at the
brink of orgasm back off by stopping all genital stimulation, stopping
all pelvic movements and relax the muscles in the pelvic floor. Breathe
deeply and concentrate even more on your mantra. After a while build
up more excitement, backing off again just before the point-of-no-return.
This way you build up a great amount of sexual magical energy and
deep erotic sensations; you may reach a state of sexual trance. After
several times coming close you wish to sweep all of your intent into
the universe; let orgasm happen and - here comes the most important
part - keep on affirming during orgasm with full mental concentration,
call out loud your magical word(s) and don't mind the neighbors!
Take care: if you lose focus during orgasm, you will have had great
sex but no magical ritual! Continue the ritual until both (or all)
partners have reached orgasm.
If you prefer working with a visualization: Start with
visualizing very vividly the new reality; see yourself
in the desired situation, feel your happiness about it,
visualize it as bright and detailed as you can. If you
work for somebody else, for instance in case of a healing,
visualize their joy and enthusiasm in the new situation.
When your visualization is complete to your idea, tell
your mind that this is your focus, then mentally store
it in your subconsciousness. Start making love with your
partner or masturbating, no longer thinking about the
visualization. At the brink of orgasm back off, recall
your visualization and breathe your orgasmic energy in
it. Continue the rhythm of arousal and backing off several
times. Just before orgasm recall the visualization from
your mind and breathe/channel your orgasm into it.
Some words about orgasm:
If you are a woman capable of having multiple orgasms (a
series of orgasms quickly after one another), just
enjoy, have them during the ritual and end with the
final orgasm. If you are a man, here's the good news
that men can learn to have multiples too; by coming
close then backing off just before the point-of-no-return
several times men can experience all the feelings of
an orgasm without having an ejaculation. Some men have
a series of small orgasms, some men experience them
as bigger orgasms. If you can do this, end the ritual
with final orgasm/ejaculation. Not all men know that
most women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm;
although there are erotic areas in the vagina most
women need the pressure of the pubic bone of their
partner against the clitoris or stimulation by hand
during intercourse to have orgasm.
It was not my intent to go deeper into this, but I
saw a t.v.program about the female orgasm explaining
that many men don't know where to locate the clitoris.
In fact the clitoris is a tiny size female penis; it
also swells during arousal and it is designed especially
for female pleasure. You will find it where the inner
lips meet at the top, it looks like a small knob and
it desires the same soft caresses with hand (make it
moist with some vaginal fluids), tongue or sucking as
the male head of the penis. Other not so well known female
erotic zones are (but not as sensitive as the clitoris):
1) the G-spot, about 1.5 inches inside the vagina, on
the front side, you'll recognize it by the rougher texture
than the rest of the vagina; when you stimulate this
for a while first the woman often feels like urinating,
but when she's through this feeling this place will become
very sensitive and enable her an orgasm with ejaculation
2) a spot more or less opposite the G-spot 3) the spot
just above the opening of the urinary tube (just above
the vagina).
After orgasm you may wish to confirm your
magick with the words: "So mote it be" and
to give thanks to God/the Goddess and your
partner.
It is important to stay close the first minutes after
intercourse with your genitals close together. There
are two reasons for this:
-
When having sex your chakras
open up and after orgasm
you're completely open with
part of your energy swirling
around you. You need some
time to recollect it and
get energized again. If one
partner rushes away after
orgasm you can feel very
disappointed, lonely and
exhausted because of this
reason.
-
After sex magick the sexual fluids of
man and woman are charged with their magical
intent; they can etherically absorb this
power for their well being and health
through the vaginal walls and the head
of the penis. It may be clear that when
you use a condom it is very unwise to
stay close together with your genitals.
The charged sexual fluids can be used to
charge an amulet or talisman by smearing
some of it on them; in case your ritual
was for gaining money you can smear it
on a coin or paper money you had put
on your altar; you can redraw the lines
of a sigil for this ritual with it, mix
the fluid with wine and drink it with
your partner, etc. In sex magick the
charged sexual fluids have become the
sacred elixir of life, and are in no way
dirty. If however you are carrying a
sexual transmittable disease it is best
to skip this part. When you are doing
sex magick alone please know that your
sexual fluids form a complete sacrament,
although they now contain one polarity,
not two.
- End the ritual with a banishment.
The heightened energy of your ritual may have attracted
astral beings. Make sure to keep them at a distance by
reconfirming your banishment, like for instance a visualized
circle of protection.
Spontaneous rituals
Sometimes your hormones are knocking; there is no
time to prepare a ritual but still you wish to direct your
sexual energy into magick. Try this:
- quickly imagine a circle of protection
- imagine two burning candles as representation of any ritual
space
- dedicate your energy to your spiritual development, with
a mantra like "I open up for my full human potential" or
magical word "open up", or when you're with a partner
something like "I honour your divinity" or magical
word "divinity"
- enjoy!
- and reconfirm the circle of protection.
The woman and her Moon
The days before the menstruation a larger amount of hormones
circulates in the female body, not only increasing her
emotions but also her magical power. During menstruation
this extra power leaves her body; this can give an extra
dimension to the elixir, but please be very careful to
only use this when the woman is in good health. After all
menstruation is also a natural monthly cleaning period
for her body. Not all women feel like having sex in this
period. But those who do can feel strongly accepted in
all their feminine aspects by having intercourse these
days. Sexual union during the (pre)menstruation days can
often relief the cramps many women experience during their
period.
I have not read it in any book, but it's quite logical that
the day of ovulation is also an extreme powerful day for
the woman, even apart from the fact that she can get pregnant
then. It is her personal full moon - but don't forget the
condom, or do oral sex magick. If however you wish to conceive
you can make this a special happening with a lovingly and
carefully prepared sex magick ritual - and give your baby
a very good start.
| Authors
Details: Anja Heij - Unknown Web Site |
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