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Your Soul Mate
From my own personal experience of being involved in certain
relationships, I have come to realize there are three different
levels of Soul Mates. We discussed Soul Mates in a previous
article of mine, ‘Soul Mates - Do they really exists”
now we should keep our eyes open and pay closer attention
to our relationships, in order that we might recognize those
soul mates.
Soul
mates have different tasks to fulfill in your life, and likewise
theirs. It is not always the case that these relationships
will exist on a level where ‘physical’ interaction
is involved and this should not be confused with their initial
task toward you. Some Soul Mates are here only to serve as
being a link between two other Soul Mates of theirs in the
first place. This alone is a very important and significant
task, as without that link the reunion of the other souls
might not ever happen. We will identify with the different
characteristics of those Soul Mates together and you should,
therefore, be able to detect some of them who are present
in your life at this time.
As
you can see, there is no limit to what a true Soul Mate might
do in order to provide their support and, on many occasions,
it is not fully understood why they do so. You might question
my statement and wonder why a Soul Mate will give up his or
her own Soul Mate to provide a link for someone else to move
on in! I mean is this not the dream we are searching for all
of our lives? Well, that’s beauty of Soul Mate, that
is, unconditional love!
Soul
Mates are a universal flow of untapped energy that we can
relate to as love and many of us do not understand the meaning
of this. It is the same thing we keep avoiding all our life
when we don’t invest ourselves fully in our relationships
anyway! On an unconscious level, Soul Mates tap into that
energy of unconditional love.
Regardless
of the level of your Soul Mate, it does not mean in any way
or form that Soul Mates have to be involved in a physical
relationship in order for them to be together. In any of those
levels, it is very easy to fall into the trap of taking things
for granted. This should be avoided at all costs. Both Soul
Mates have to be ready to embark into their journey together,
and this is very important for the relationship to succeed.
Here
are the three levels of Soul Mates I have come to realize
and understand through experiences of my own:
Level
One: Your mirrored image – These are a rare example.
However, it is possible that they do exist in each of our
lives at one point or another. We might have one or two in
a lifetime from this category, if we are lucky! What makes
them special? Soul Mates of this sort come into our life in
a fast, weird and unexpected way. The situations and events
in our lives begin to change of their own accord, in order
to accommodate the arrival and the reunion of both Souls.
In such a case such as this, it is can almost be said that
it is ‘written in the stars!’ Both Souls have
to be ready for each other, as I did explain before it is
not enough to sustain the relationship at its full potential,
only by existing as Soul Mates.
This level is the strongest and most powerful type of Soul
Mates. They do have many similar interests and share an almost
equal interest in their life direction. They will think alike,
and in many cases will be able to continue speaking a sentence
where the other one has left off. They are a mirror of each
other, although they do not have to be exactly the same. However,
each one compliments the other with their individual strengths
and weaknesses and they will understand each other by being
on same ‘wavelength’.
Level
Two: Your Supporter – Soul Mates of this sort are everywhere
around you. Try to take deeper look at the people who surround
you. Just look around when you are in dire need of help or
guidance in a ‘life or death’ situation or at
a time when you have a heavy burden on your shoulders. Who
is around you and ready to listen to you when you really need
their assistance? Think of the people who bring you comfort
and peace when you need it, or who answer your call when you
need some help. These types of Soul Mates do have unconditional
love towards each other which can sometimes be difficult to
comprehend. Is there someone in your life, of whom, you can
relate to being there in that fashion?
Level
Three: Your Provider – We encounter these types of Soul
Mates in situations that might feel ‘weird’ or
perhaps in some un-expected places. We like to refer to them,
sometimes, as being our angels. If they occur, they usually
will not stay in our lives for a great length of time. You
might come across a Soul Mate of this kind when you are just
wondering along the street, thinking away to yourself and
from nowhere someone will provide with you a small message
that will open up a possible answer to those ‘thoughts’
you have upon a certain circumstance in your life. These Soul
Mates are placed on your path ‘out of the blue’
and we might never see their face again! We then carry on,
feeling blessed at having had them in our life at that necessary
moment. Their role is to provide us with an answer or a push
toward making a small decision in order to keep us moving
in our lives and struggles at that time. Can you relate to
such an occurrence in your life?
I
asked my guides the question, “will I ever meet my Soul
Mates?”
They replied, “You keep searching throughout your life
for the perfect partner for you, but, have you ever questioned
if you are a good example of a Soul Mate for someone else?”
In reality, the importance is not in hunting to find the right
Soul Mate or partner for you. The importance is in whether
you yourself are willing to be the ‘right’ Soul
Mate or partner for someone else! Life is a two way street,
but, are you ready to be the right one for someone else?
In
the end, we all can be the ‘right’ Soul Mate for
anyone we choose in our life, but only when we are ready to
treat our partner as a human being, as a soul and to cherish
every moment spent with them. Also it is crucial that we learn
to let go of the fact that we do have differences between
us and any ‘ego’ that exists in any relationship.
How ready are we? That’s the bottom line! The search
has to start from within ourselves first”.
From
my account of how Soul Mates exist in our lives, we can see
that they are everywhere around us and we have been blessed
since the day we were born! How much real attention do we
pay to the people around us? I believe that most of the time
we do take these people for granted! Why? One main reason
is because we become too self-centered, leading to us disregarding
those people around us who provide us with help, who listen
to us and generally do sympathize with us in our time of need.
After all, it is not only about providing someone with sympathy,
but about acknowledging people for who they really are.
I
would also like to mention here that any relationship that
brings the union of ‘Old Souls’ is above all and
the best time and example of soul mates being together, the
reason being, for what they will bring to each other in terms
of growth, understanding and appreciation. As a result of
their union their wisdom, compassion, value of each other
and evolution of consciousness will flourish in a way that
would be almost impossible for them to achieve if they were
united with another soul that is less highly evolved than
what they are themselves. In such a case the older soul will
always feel a huge gap or that there is something missing
in the relationship in terms of their overall understanding
and awareness of each other and it is only because the souls
exist on two completely different levels of consciousness.
I will not go into too much detail here on the subject of
‘Old Souls’ as I will have an article next month
which focuses primarily on this topic.
At
the end Soul Mate is about unconditional love. If you have
that and you can provide that to anyone around and especially
towards your partner, I believe you find your Soul Mate after
all!
Wishing
you all to be with your Soul Mates!
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