(...Continued
From Abundance & Your Inner Child Pt 1)
Abundance - Five things your
Inner Child wants you to know:
I am real! I do exist and I want a relationship with you.
For many years we have heard
of the Inner Child and some of us have spent time working
through issues in order to heal the wounds of our past. Once
completed we walk away feeling somewhat better yet still unable
to feel that profound sense of self love, that feeling that
is there every day like we thought we would. Sadly we realize
there must be more healing to do, more work to be done and
so we continue our search. I was one of those people who walked
away from therapy somewhat better but still aching from an
emptiness that I could not fill. My guides finally gave me
the answer to filling that emptiness; it was a continuous,
daily relationship with her. They told me, “You are
your Inner Child’s parent and therefore you need to
parent her just as you would a flesh and blood child. So,
spend at least 5 minutes a day talking to your Inner Child.
Just 5 minutes a day will bring you the self love you have
always desired.” Five minutes a day will fill your Inner
Child’s need for connection. The Inner Child doesn’t
care if you focus on other things or people as long as he/she
is emotionally satisfied.
I am your physical body.
Now this was a real eye-opener.
I had no idea that my Inner Child (I call her Jessie) believed
she is my physical body...another tidbit of multidimensional
knowledge dropped in my lap compliments of my guides. Knowing
this put me light years ahead in my emotional healing because
I now understood the connection between my Inner Child and
my physical aches and pains. Louise Hayes’ book, Heal
your Body, now made more sense than ever. When I took the
probable cause interpretations she had developed for physical
symptoms and applied them to my Inner Child, I discovered
the Inner Child Language. In other words, our Inner Child
speaks to us through the language of physical and emotional
sensations. Having this tool enabled me to finally understand
what my Inner Child was trying to convey. Now how does this
relate to an abundance block? If you are simultaneously being
blocked financially and experiencing physical disease or pain,
look up the disease or location of the pain in Louise’s
book, take the probable cause and read it as your Inner Child
speaking to you. Example: Knee problems - Louise says it means
stubborn ego, inability to bend, fear and inflexibility. Using
Inner Child language, we see that the Inner Child saying,
“I am in fear and choose to be inflexible and unbending
in my resistance to the change you want to make. And, I won’t
feel safe changing directions and will continue to resist
until you make it safe for me to do so.”
I am your partner so please
discuss changes with me before you make them and make it safe!
Since your Inner Child sees
him/herself as your physical body and therefore as a partner
in this incarnation, he/she deserves to be consulted before
any big changes are undertaken. I had not understood this
until my guides pointed it out one day when I called upon
them in great frustration to help me see why my attempts to
move forward were being thwarted at every turn. I realized
that not only had I not consulted her and asked her how she
felt about making the changes I had in mind, I had not made
it safe to do so by creating agreements about how we would
handle the effects of the change.
One of the things we forget
when moving along life’s path whether we are spiritual
or not is that even though we may be ready to make a change
in our life, our Inner Child may not be. If he/she is not
ready it is because we have not discussed it with him/her
and/or done anything, such as making agreements to take care
of the emotional or physical pain that may come as a result
of the change. For example, if we decide to release old anger
and do a Liver Cleanse to release the stones in our liver/gallbladder,
without talking to our Inner Child and making agreements about
how we will deal with that anger once it surfaces, he/she
will block the release of the stones. I have had numerous
clients experience this very thing. Once they go back and
make the agreements, the next cleanse is quite successful.
So what I am saying in regards to abundance and the Inner
Child is to be sure that you make agreements with your Inner
Child about how you will take care of her and you through
and after the change that is required.
It’s my job to protect
you and keep you happy.
The Inner child believes that
his/her purpose for existing is to keep you safe and happy.
That means safe from emotional/physical pain and happy at
all times. We all have a limit of emotional/physical pain
that we are willing to consciously feel. We unconsciously
teach that limit to our Inner Child. As a result, he/she knows
that anything beyond that limit must be stuffed so that we
don’t feel it. When things are going well that is easy
to do but when fear enters into the picture things take a
different turn. When you are threatened in any way either
physically, emotionally or mentally, the Inner Child goes
into Superman mode in order to protect you. At times this
means that he/she will use fear as a tool to keep you safe.
At those times he/she flips into his/her dark side and uses
the abilities attributed to the lower or male chakras to protect.
This “Dark” side is synonymous with the Ego. When
I learned this from my guides, it was as if they dropped a
bomb on me. I would never have connected my sweet Inner Child
with my Ego.
Protection in Inner Child
language can take many forms, a gut feeling of “watch
out” or “something doesn’t feel right”
to blinding you to an opportunity, or at the extreme, developing
a fatal physical, emotional or mental illness. In between
are addictions (depression, the great emotional medicator,
drugs, alcohol, work, food etc)…tools the Ego/Inner
Child uses to keep you preoccupied so that you won’t
do the thing that will cause, in her/his mind, your demise.
What you think about yourself,
you think about me.
Our Inner Child hears every
thought, feeling and word we speak about ourselves. He/she,
being a child is narcissistic by nature just like any child
and therefore believes that thought, feeling or spoken word
is about him/her. That’s why the key to changing one’s
self image lies with the Inner Child. Talking to this Inner
Child using positive self-talk backed up by agreements and
follow through will change self-hatred, low self-esteem and
self- worth into self-love. If your Inner Child feels that
an opportunity for financial abundance will in anyway cause
him/her to be blamed, he/she will block it. For example, if
your mission is to become a teacher but you are an enabler
(we call it being a caretaker—someone who rescues others),
your Inner Child will block any efforts you make to set up
workshops or get a job working for someone else. Why? Because
she/he knows that you disproportionately get your love and
acceptance from giving too much energy to others in an attempt
to fulfill their needs and don’t leave enough in reserve
for yourself nor do you truly give yourself (Inner Child)
love and acceptance. Also, since you fear being rejected if
you don’t have all the answers or fail to meet someone’s
needs, the Inner Child knows that that fear will result in
you feeling guilty. When you feel guilty the Inner Child experiences
that guilt as you blaming him/her. The Inner Child experiences
blame as rejection and abandonment.
As we now see, there are several
things we do that we may not have been consciously aware would
cause our Inner Child to block our abundance. There are more
and to determine which ones are applicable to you, I suggest
reading the articles provided below under “Additional
Reading.” Our Inner Child though appearing complex is
actually quite simple. He/she only wants to be loved and to
feel safe within that love and the love he/she is most interested
in is that of you, his/her parent. To this end he/she will
move heaven and earth to obtain and maintain it.
In closing, if you want to
experience great abundance, get heart connected to Earth,
love being here because when you love Earth you love your
Inner Child who believes he/she is made of the Earth and exists
in this dimension. Not only will you begin to experience financial
abundance, you will net the added bonus of the greatest love
you have ever known.
More Articles On Abundance
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